Hi Everybody,
The question about cheating is very complex. Some of us think that men are more willing to cheat that women, others think that women cheat more often that guys, but the real question is Why do we cheat ? Is it because we are unsatisfied, Is it because of the routine, Is it because we just feel that the love and respect is gone or simply because we want something different ?
For me and this is just my personal opinion we do it because of lack of communication as simple as that, I mean there are some other factors that might lead to that lack of communication but it always comes back to that simple word we have forgotten in each and every relationship we have or have had in the past.
Think about it ! I decided to talk about this subject just because I was cheated on and I didn't even know that. I though that everything was perfect and that my spouse needed to understand everything about me, Did I ever ask something ? Hmnnn ! Nope I did not. As years pass by we tend to forget that women need attention, small details and one of the most important thing they need to be listened !! they love attention so If you are a hubby out there think about this advice at least every 6 months and change the routine for a while, think about those first dates, the things you did for her, all the surprises you gave her !! all the crazy things you did together and just do it again !! Women really appreciate this changes and love the " attention " factor.
Women,, hmnnn remember that there are a lot of girls out there that might want your man, sometimes you girls think that " I am already married "ehhh " He is mine" or "He is going to be mine for the rest of my life" but the truth is that ! You never know who is sharing those moments you don't like to spend with him or that maybe somebody is trying !! So, If for you girls it's important to be listened, for us guys there is nothing better that spending, sharing and enjoying the thinks we like to do with you.
So as said before, Talk ! Talk ! Talk ! communicate that's the only way to know all of these things we all forget as years pass by.
Needles to say that I actually learned all of this the hard way !! but if you think that your spouse is having an affair or cheating on you whatever you want to call it you really need to take action ! action !. Try to save the relationship and if that is impossible at least try to find out what did you do wrong, knowing what happened will help you get over it and most importantly it will help you go on with your life.
I believe we all want to know if we are being cheated on, or at least I really wanted to know. Suspicious behaviors and and changes in your spouse might be a red flag you want to follow . What did I do ? I took action and discover the things that were better for me and for her. Please take a second to review this very informative site which is the one I have to Thank today as it opened my eyes for the real world of "cheating".
Thanks for your time,
Wolfy.
http://catching-a-cheater.com/
